Escort Advice: Navigating Bookings with Intoxicated Clients

As high end companions, we’re sometimes placed in situations where a client may be a bit more inebriated than expected. Whether it’s one drink too many at a dinner or someone arriving a bit tipsy, knowing how to handle an intoxicated client with professionalism and care is essential. Based on my experience as an agency owner, here’s my advice on how to navigate these moments while prioritising your safety, comfort, and well-being.

Set Clear Expectations from the Start

One of the best ways to prevent challenging situations is by establishing boundaries from the beginning. During initial communications, or when confirming a booking, it can help to mention your expectations for a positive, respectful experience. You could say something like, “I find the experience is most enjoyable when we’re both present and engaged,” which can subtly encourage clients to approach the evening with moderation in mind.

Setting this foundation from the start not only protects your experience but also creates a mutual understanding that helps both you and the client enjoy your time together.

Assess the Situation and Trust Your Instincts

If a client arrives visibly intoxicated or becomes inebriated during the booking, take a moment to assess the situation. Your comfort and safety come first, and it’s perfectly acceptable to pause and decide whether you feel comfortable continuing. Trust your instincts – if something doesn’t feel right, it likely isn’t.

It’s important to remember that as a professional, you have every right to step back if a client’s behavior changes under the influence. Safety always comes before social expectations, and recognising when a client’s intoxication might lead to inappropriate behavior is part of your professional judgment.

Politely Redirect and Set Limits

In situations where a client is mildly intoxicated but still manageable, a gentle redirection can help. For example, if the client is drinking too quickly or showing signs of agitation, you might steer the conversation to something calming or suggest a non-alcoholic option, such as, “Would you like some water to go with that?” This type of subtle suggestion can slow down their drinking and help stabilise the atmosphere.

By setting a relaxed tone, you can maintain a sense of calm and control in the environment. If the client continues to drink heavily, though, it’s wise to keep an exit plan in mind or consider pausing the booking until they’re in a more agreeable state.

Address Inappropriate Behavior Immediately

If an intoxicated client starts behaving inappropriately – whether it’s verbal or physical – addressing it calmly and directly can often diffuse the situation. Phrases like, “That makes me uncomfortable,” or “Please don’t do that,” help to assert your boundaries without escalating the mood. From my experience, most clients, even those who are somewhat intoxicated, will respond respectfully when they hear a gentle but firm boundary.

Setting boundaries right away not only protects your comfort but also sends a message that your well-being is important. Remember, you’re never obligated to tolerate behavior that feels uncomfortable or disrespectful.

Don’t Hesitate to End the Booking if Necessary

Sometimes, despite your best efforts, a client may continue to drink excessively or fail to respect your boundaries. In these cases, it’s entirely acceptable – and often necessary – to end the booking early. Politely letting the client know that the experience can continue another time, perhaps when they’re in a better state, can help maintain professionalism while keeping you safe.

Ending a booking is never an easy decision, but your safety and peace of mind are the top priorities. As a companion, you’re entitled to work with clients who respect both you and the experience you’re offering, and there’s no harm in taking a firm stance when a situation requires it.

Prepare a Safety Plan in Advance

Even with the best precautions, it’s helpful to have a safety plan for situations involving intoxicated clients. Letting a trusted contact know about your booking, having a reliable mode of transportation, and even using safe communication apps can give you peace of mind. Additionally, having a private code or signal you can send to a friend if you need backup can make a significant difference in how secure you feel in these scenarios.

Planning ahead ensures you have a quick and easy way out if things become uncomfortable. This kind of preparation is invaluable in maintaining both your safety and your confidence in handling any unexpected situations.

Lean on Your Support Network for Advice and Encouragement

Handling intoxicated clients can be challenging, and it’s perfectly normal to feel a bit shaken after a tough experience. Reaching out to friends, colleagues, or a trusted agency can be a great way to process your feelings and get valuable advice. Other companions often have insights and suggestions from similar situations, and just knowing you’re not alone can be incredibly reassuring.

Within our agency, we encourage open dialogue, and I’ve seen how much it helps companions to talk about these experiences in a supportive environment. You deserve a safe, understanding space to share your concerns, and leaning on your network can make all the difference in bouncing back stronger.

Prioritise Your Well-Being Above All Else

Above everything else, your health and well-being come first. At Movida Models, we try to vet our clients before you ever have to meet them. Working with clients who are intoxicated can be mentally and emotionally taxing, so be kind to yourself afterward. Taking a moment to relax, unwind, and practice self-care can help you reset and restore your energy.

Whether it’s a calming routine, an evening with friends, or simply taking a break, finding ways to recharge ensures that you’re ready and refreshed for your next client. Remember, you’re not just offering a service; you’re sharing a part of yourself with each client, and that makes your peace of mind invaluable.

Boundaries Are Essential for Both You and the Client

From my experience, setting boundaries with intoxicated clients isn’t about confrontation; it’s about creating a safe, respectful, and enjoyable environment for both you and your client. Most clients appreciate and respect companions who can maintain a professional and caring approach, even in unexpected situations. When a client is under the influence, your boundaries are even more vital to ensuring a positive experience.

Handling these moments with grace, patience, and self-respect sends a powerful message – that you value yourself and the work you do. And if you ever need support or advice, don’t hesitate to reach out. Your well-being is always worth protecting, and you’re never alone in navigating the challenges of this profession.